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In some of my former posts, I addressed this subject. Sometimes we are GIVEN the information to help us just "deal with" the trauma/tragedy when it happens; if we try to intervene, we merely change how it happens, and how long it takes. It cost my son 5.5 years in a coma for me to suddenly realize the info was for ME... not for me to change it.

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Some days are DIAMONDS; some days are STONES!

Yes.... I just didn't want to let go.

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Me, too... but there had been signs that (my son) he'd been chosen; however, I was living with a heathen--it was much easier to not create waves in our (my husband and my) already fragile relationship. So I ignored them.

And then when I received the flash that Mark was going to be KILLED by a car, I didn't stop to analyze it; I reacted.

I violated a joint Protection Order his father and I had against each other, and dared to call and tell him what I'd seen in my mind's eye.

Of course, he said he DIDN'T believe me... but interestingly, 3 days later there was a VERY expensive chain-link fence installed around the front of the property and a gate across the driveway. It didn't stop the tragedy; it only changed how it happened, and the length of time my son had to endure the suffering. MY fault... I deserted my beliefs for the sake of compromise. I've never truly done that, since. And that's been nearly 33 years. I learned my lesson, the HARD way.

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Some days are DIAMONDS; some days are STONES!

On the other hand maybe as tweaked has said that might be the reason some of us are abducted.Maybe it makes it easier for abductees to handle what is happening to them. Because most people who believe in the paranormal are not running down the street saying a ghost is trying to kill me. Or hurry call the goverment I need help I am being abducted and I want pertection.

I do not think it was your fault it happened .As you said it happened another way. I feel bad that it happened to you.And your son.But I do understand how you feel telling your husband at the time and he was looking at you with none believing eyes.But on the other side as you said your son was chosen and that is for your son not a bad thing.Not that it is good you lost him so soon and wanted to let him experience life some more' but that he has got a head start of us to the next level of true happiness.

There are many people with many types of gifts.I had worked with a handi capped man.You could ask him when your birthday would be this year on what day.He would ask you what year and month and day you were born on.In less then 3 seconds he would tell you.He can do this with anyone born for any date going as back as far as you wanted. Many people have what is not considered the normal type of gifts. Whether it is being able to know some times some thing will happen before it does.Or having dreams that will let you see what will happen.But for all the people who live in a box of there own making thinking this cannot be.They can stay in the box because I do not want to waste my time with them.And for you I also am sorry for your loss.Decisions no one should have to make.But the mind that has love always also has hope and some times the hope is not enough.It is knowones fault.Peace to you and yours always.

With Age comes better discernment. That's why I've always said youth is WASTED on the young... We should be born OLD, and grow younger as we get wiser; think of how much more we'd know, and how we would use the information, if lives were just the opposite! We'd be able to explore those caves, climb those peaks, and not have an OLD body to put a damper on either our abilities or our mental capacities.

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Some days are DIAMONDS; some days are STONES!

Yes having the older knowledge younger would be better.As long as we were not that old grumpy old man or women who wants to call the cops on us because our ball went over the fence.LOL Maybe that is why most who die older and still remember things seem to be happy and comfortable.That is when people will finally say I love you.Or I will miss you. Or remember that time we went and had that picnic in the park and made love on that full moon.Because in death you are thinking of the good times not all the bad things.The bad things now seem to mean nothing and the joy you lost for so long finally comes up front.But hey just because we get older and cannot run or climb as high as before does not mean we can not go a little lower a little slower and still get there.It is like starting over.For so long we let our minds convince us that I just cannot do it anymore the way I used to.So do it the way you can.It is not different then first trying to climb that hill .You got tired never thought you could make it .Wanted to give up .But kept going and then you said I can't believe I made it.So is it getting old.Only now we can use age as a excuse also instead of I am not in good enough shape.The mind has more power then the age trying to stop it.